“Forgive and Forget” = Grade A MALARKEY

Suggestion from Author- Grab some tissues, I wish I had some nearby while I wrote this.

MY Theory of Relativity:

Allow me to add some relevant comedic context….

If your reaction coincidentally mirrored mine, you NEEDED to watch it at least 10 times.  Yes, some might view that as cruel humor, nonetheless, that is HILARIOUS!

Learn from Sid.  The philosophical parellels are overwhelming.

Now that I have your attention…… (hey, one can only hope!)

Through my families journey through the unknown realm of grief, we simultaneously became full-time archeologists.  If you have ever been in our house, you are aware that “our digging site” cannot be circumvented.  That has become a simple fact in all aspects of MY life.   Fortunately, I have been granted the opportunity through my newfound UNIVERSAL lens that I call philosophy. Ultimately though, MY life experiences molded me into the man that I am in my current reality.  With that said, one of  “My Pillars of Truth”, is undoubtedly derived from understanding the pros and cons of circumvention.

Here’s an example from my life:

Today is the anniversary of when my grandfather left our realm.  Below is a poem that my PaPa Benny shared to his Troop 834 and respective families of Dundalk, Maryland, circa 1970.  I’m not sure about the origins of the poem, that fact has become obsolete to my truth.  My truth of the matter is simple- One can simply never suppress their history, YOU HAVE TO OWN IT.

So, here I am. I am owning MY TRUTH and my purpose has become crystal clear.  I am constantly learning from other people’s interpretations and perspectives of life.  While the indivudal structures in my brain symbiotically interact via nuerons, my tear ducts become swollen through pure ecstasy.  Let me explain…. As ridiculous as it might sound and for whatever primitive reason, I never fully forgave him for dying when I was barely alive.  I carried this invisible burden throughout my whole life while ironically embracing my Mom’s nickname for me.  Now I universally understand the magnitude of why I am “Little Benny”.

A Little Fellow Follows Me

A careful man i want to be,

A little fellow follows me

I do not dare to go astray

For fear he’ll go the self same way

I cannot once escape his eyes

What’er he sees me do he tries

Like me he says he’s going to be

That little chap who follows me

He thinks that I am good and fine

Believes in every work of mine

The base in me he must not see

That little chap who follows me

I must remember as I go

Through the summer’s sun and winter’s snow

I’m building for the years to be

That little chap who follows me.

In closing,

I forgive you Papa but you must know that you ARE NOT forgotten.  Your energy and love is coursing through my veins and because of this, I have found my meaning of life.  So I simply thank you for knowing YOUR truth.

Lastly, here’s a poem I just thought of.


I don’t know why we say “RIP”

Because I know my TRUTH.

It’s Theory of Relativity.

Is that food on your tooth?

Always with love,


Please share if it moves you. GOOD can conquer EVIL!!!!!!!!!!

Author: Bee's Jayyy

I'm just a simpleton with dreams of changing the world! My sails have been adjusted and my destination has been predetermined. ONE LOVE, LOVE ALL

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